Unfollow Me, He Follows Me By Kathryn Caraway
Genre: True Crime Memoir
He is not my stalker.
When I talk about my house, my car, or my dog I am signaling ownership, connection, and pride. That’s not what a stalker deserves. By referring to him as “my stalker,” I unintentionally take ownership in his actions.
I want nothing to do with that. I reject any notion that ties me to his sadistic choices.
Todd had countless opportunities to recognize the depravity of his actions and stop. Stalking isn’t an isolated incident or momentary lapse in judgment; it is a pattern of behavior.
Every time he followed me, watched me, invaded my life without consent, he made a conscious decision to continue down that dark path. Todd cannot blame his upbringing, mental health, or any external circumstances for his actions.
He, and he alone, is accountable.
I admit, it’s tempting to make excuses for him and to rationalize his behavior as a manifestation of unresolved trauma or to put a label on whatever mental health issue he might have. Throughout the publishing process, I was implored to consider including a mental health expert’s perspective on Todd’s psychological profile. But I refused to do this. I refuse to offer an excuse for the choices he made in terrorizing me.
No matter what mental illness he suffers from or demons that haunt him, Todd had a choice. He could have sought help. Instead, he chose to violate my most fundamental human right—the right to feel safe.
The only things I claim ownership over are my truth, my strength, and my determination not to be silenced.
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Unfollow Me
A Terrifying True Story of a Sadistic Stalker
First comes the true story. Then comes her fictional revenge.
What if the man stalking you worked in IT—at the police department?
“Think it couldn’t happen to you? Think again. Read. This. Book.” —John DeDakis, Award-winning novelist, writing coach, and former editor on CNN’s “The Situation Room with Wolf Blitzer”
This true crime case is told with brutal honesty, exposing the silent terror of stalking. Gripping details of kidnapping, intimate partner abuse, and surveillance using everyday tools engrained in society—and most households—uncovers systemic blindspots. From overlooked police reports to exhausting court battles, it’s a story of a woman’s resilience in the face of relentless fear. A must read for fans of true crime, survival stories, and psychological thrillers.
Stalkers don’t just hide in the shadows. Some log in.
Kathryn meets Todd, a charming IT expert for the police department. He coaxes her into a brief relationship and turns a normal breakup into a reign of terror. Todd isn’t just obsessed—he’s inside Kathryn’s home network.
He doesn’t have to be in her house to watch her. Or hear her.
He sees her text messages—on his screen.
He can follow her car without ever leaving his house.
And he even tells her why: “You are mine. And I don’t share.”
When Todd asks Kathryn if she wants to see death coming, she tells him no. Now she waits for it every day. Dismissed by officers, Kathryn builds a case police can no longer ignore. But the more she learns about Todd’s past, the more she suspects he might be tied to the unsolved murder of a woman she has only one thing in common with: Todd.
And if she’s right, she might be next . . .
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He Follows Me
Kathryn Caraway thought a conviction would end the nightmare. She was wrong.
Todd Bennett is getting out of jail—and he hasn’t forgotten her. The government offers her a lifeline: new name, new life, new country. But freedom comes at a cost and safety is an illusion.
U.S. Marshal Wes Kade doesn’t care about feelings. He cares about results. Cold, disciplined, and relentless, he has built a career on keeping people alive. But something about this case doesn’t add up. He realizes this isn’t personal—it’s war.
With nowhere left to hide, Kathryn must face the terrifying truth that some nightmares never end.
A gripping psychological thriller where survival isn’t just about escape—it’s about fighting back.
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About the Author
Kathryn Caraway lived life as the target of a stalker for years. After her perpetrator’s conviction, Kathryn founded the Unfollow Me Project to raise education and awareness of the debilitating effects of stalking, as well as to offer support to those being stalked. For more information, go to https://unfollowme.com.
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